We raised our oldest grandson. He's 22. some shit has happened to him that has him back home with us. At the same time our youngest son is here. I am angry he is here. Every chance I get I tell him to get the hell out. Our oldest grandson has bitched to me over and over again about him being here. SO today they come home and I tell him to get out and all of a sudden our grandson turned on me and started to scream at me. Now all of a sudden he is standing up for his lazy ass uncle. He also thinks because he is buying groceries that he is now in charge of this house. more than we are. He didn't pay the mortgage and his name is NOT on the house papers in any way. It is mine and hubbies. Yet he seems to think because he buys the food he can now take over. He yells at me that he has held his tongue long enough and hes not gonna let me get away with this shit any more. WHAT THE FUCK? Here is a kid who has been bitching at me for months about his lazy ass uncle living off us and that we need to get him out and we keep trying but he just wont get out. NOW he's yelling at me. well I told him he can get the fuck out too. I am done with both of them
Tuesday, March 13, 2018
Wednesday, March 7, 2018
It's happening again
We are already into March. And this weekend is when we spring for wards turning our clocks ahead an hour. Day light savings time. Already. Yet there is about 2 maybe 3 feet of snow still on the ground and more yet to come (after all this is March)
My main gripe today isn't so much about the snow although I'd be super happy if it was gone and the ground was dried up ( no puddles or mud)
No it's my grand children.
I have several that I don't get to see.
3 (2 boys 1 girl) because their mom and dad separated and well its such a long story. But our son is living with us and as much as want them to visit I DO NOT WANT TO BE THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO SUPERVISE THEM.
And then the other one who I don't see well I'm not sure why we don't see her. I'm not sure if it's her choice or her mom's but her dad (our oldest son) is well yeah lets not get into that either.
I keep trying to tell her if she come's to visit us she DOES NOT HAVE TO SEE HER DAD. We would just love to see her. After all we aren't gonna be here forever. With hubby being 66 and me 63 (and that changes when we have our birthday's this year. Well you know it could happen at any time.
I love all of my grand children.
I do get to see the other 4. (all boys) In fact they are in our lives just about every day.
MY BIGGEST WISH IS I LEAVE A BIG LASTING GOOD IMPRESSION.
I want them all to say yeah grandma and grandpa were so much fun they did this with us or we did that and then smile and tell (maybe their kids) good stories about us.
One can only hope.
My main gripe today isn't so much about the snow although I'd be super happy if it was gone and the ground was dried up ( no puddles or mud)
No it's my grand children.
I have several that I don't get to see.
3 (2 boys 1 girl) because their mom and dad separated and well its such a long story. But our son is living with us and as much as want them to visit I DO NOT WANT TO BE THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO SUPERVISE THEM.
And then the other one who I don't see well I'm not sure why we don't see her. I'm not sure if it's her choice or her mom's but her dad (our oldest son) is well yeah lets not get into that either.
I keep trying to tell her if she come's to visit us she DOES NOT HAVE TO SEE HER DAD. We would just love to see her. After all we aren't gonna be here forever. With hubby being 66 and me 63 (and that changes when we have our birthday's this year. Well you know it could happen at any time.
I love all of my grand children.
I do get to see the other 4. (all boys) In fact they are in our lives just about every day.
MY BIGGEST WISH IS I LEAVE A BIG LASTING GOOD IMPRESSION.
I want them all to say yeah grandma and grandpa were so much fun they did this with us or we did that and then smile and tell (maybe their kids) good stories about us.
One can only hope.
Wednesday, January 31, 2018
Happy New Year (small rant)
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!
HOPE YOUR NEW YEAR WAS A FUN AND SAFE ONE. Mr. Gab and I stayed home. We had 2 of our grandsons over but by 9:30 Mr. Gab and I were in bed and the boys were doing their own thing in the bedroom. I believe on their computers/
NOW for just a small rant:
Small children should NOT have cancer. It just is not fair. At any age it's not fair. My own mother died at a very early age because of cancer. I lost an Aunt because of Cancer. She was my mom's sister. Almost all of my mother's sisters have cancer in some form or another. I myself had cancer that they caught at an early stage.
I hear all these stories about children having cancer. CHILDREN. WHY? Why would God give you this perfect little bundle of joy just to give them cancer and possibly take them away? I Don't understand.
HOPE YOUR NEW YEAR WAS A FUN AND SAFE ONE. Mr. Gab and I stayed home. We had 2 of our grandsons over but by 9:30 Mr. Gab and I were in bed and the boys were doing their own thing in the bedroom. I believe on their computers/
NOW for just a small rant:
Small children should NOT have cancer. It just is not fair. At any age it's not fair. My own mother died at a very early age because of cancer. I lost an Aunt because of Cancer. She was my mom's sister. Almost all of my mother's sisters have cancer in some form or another. I myself had cancer that they caught at an early stage.
I hear all these stories about children having cancer. CHILDREN. WHY? Why would God give you this perfect little bundle of joy just to give them cancer and possibly take them away? I Don't understand.
Monday, December 25, 2017
Merry Christmas part 2
Well went to our daughter's place where I cooked the turkey and daughter did the rest. This year we did not have any gifts for the grand kids. And that probably was ok cause they got enough from mom and her boyfriend to keep them busy for the whole year.
The boys both came home with us and will be here at least a week.
Now for the very part 2 of my story.
Last year just before Christmas we went to FL. to rest relax check out a community that we are hoping to move into and go see Mr. Gab's mom. Well, we got to see her and it was a very good thing we did for less than 1 month later she passed away.
Then in Sept we went up for a family dinner to say good bye to mom and the next morning we went out to the old farm where Mr. Gab grew up. I figured I would cry but surprisingly I did not. The place looked so different than the last several times we had been up there that there just wasn't anything that looked like the farm. Then that afternoon we went to an all family reunion where Mr Gab and one of his brother's made amends as well as I did. The thing is the night before at the family dinner Mr. Gab's sister - in- law who has disliked me from day 1 hugged me and treated me with respect. She also gave us 2 pictures of his parents. the first one when they were first married the second from later in life when I was part of the family.
And then about 2 weeks ago all of a sudden one of his older brothers (the one who shares the same birthday as he does only he is 4 years older than Mr Gab.) He got in touch in Mr.Gab. Shocked his so much. And in between all of this his cousin whom we used to spend so much time with when we were first married also got in touch with us. We went out to dinner with then for 3 whole hours.
And tonight Mr Gab's brother the one who share's his birthday called him. They talked for a good long time. He learned that his brother had had a heart attack and had to have stents put in. I know he would get mad for me saying this but there were tears in his eyes.
We need to figure out how to go visit his brother real soon.
so to sum up right now 2017 has been good and bad. We lost my mother in law whom I loved dearly.
We made up with several family members and got back in touch with a couple that we hadn't talked with for a long time. I'm hoping this mean 2018 means we will be spending time with these people that we "found" again. God Bless you all.
The boys both came home with us and will be here at least a week.
Now for the very part 2 of my story.
Last year just before Christmas we went to FL. to rest relax check out a community that we are hoping to move into and go see Mr. Gab's mom. Well, we got to see her and it was a very good thing we did for less than 1 month later she passed away.
Then in Sept we went up for a family dinner to say good bye to mom and the next morning we went out to the old farm where Mr. Gab grew up. I figured I would cry but surprisingly I did not. The place looked so different than the last several times we had been up there that there just wasn't anything that looked like the farm. Then that afternoon we went to an all family reunion where Mr Gab and one of his brother's made amends as well as I did. The thing is the night before at the family dinner Mr. Gab's sister - in- law who has disliked me from day 1 hugged me and treated me with respect. She also gave us 2 pictures of his parents. the first one when they were first married the second from later in life when I was part of the family.
And then about 2 weeks ago all of a sudden one of his older brothers (the one who shares the same birthday as he does only he is 4 years older than Mr Gab.) He got in touch in Mr.Gab. Shocked his so much. And in between all of this his cousin whom we used to spend so much time with when we were first married also got in touch with us. We went out to dinner with then for 3 whole hours.
And tonight Mr Gab's brother the one who share's his birthday called him. They talked for a good long time. He learned that his brother had had a heart attack and had to have stents put in. I know he would get mad for me saying this but there were tears in his eyes.
We need to figure out how to go visit his brother real soon.
so to sum up right now 2017 has been good and bad. We lost my mother in law whom I loved dearly.
We made up with several family members and got back in touch with a couple that we hadn't talked with for a long time. I'm hoping this mean 2018 means we will be spending time with these people that we "found" again. God Bless you all.
Sunday, December 24, 2017
Merry Christmas
Merry Christmas
Happy Hanukkah
Happy Holidays
No matter how you celebrate or how you say it MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM GAB AND MR. GAB
Happy Hanukkah
Happy Holidays
No matter how you celebrate or how you say it MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM GAB AND MR. GAB
Friday, December 8, 2017
Been Awhile
Been Awhile since I posted. I have been well down and yet very busy. I'm still dealing with youngest son and his kids. But I tell ya what. THOSE KIDS WON'T BE COMING HERE AGAIN! Oh and this time I'm sticking to it. Ok so 2 weeks ago those kids were here and he wasn't really watching them. He took his second oldest son and was playing video games with him. The other 2 were playing on their own in one of the back bedrooms. All of a sudden they came out to the living room and Kaitelynn was holding her finger in her mouth and saying it tingled. I asked why and she said she put it in the socket in the wall and got a shock. I went down to the bed room and everything was blacked out meaning she had popped a circuit. I was so mad I yelled at her "what the hell I don't go to your house to break your stuff what the hell gives you the rights to come here and break mine?" OH I WAS MAD Not just because she had stuck her finger in the socket.....because 1) her dad wasn't watching her 2) she could have gotten seriously hurt or worse died! UGH
So ok I told my son they weren't coming back again.
Then 2 weeks go by and our daughter tells us her boys have Friday off from school. Grandpa said it has been so warm we should do a bon-fire before winter really sets in. SO we went and picked up her two boys on Thursday so they could spend Thursday night and do bon-fire with gpa. But of course youngest son gets pissed cause we used the excuse that his kids cant stay cause we are remodeling and don't have room for them to stay yet we have room for his sisters boys. (whom btw can care for themselves one is 15 the other is 10). Anyways so here we go Thursday we have 2 they go home on Friday afternoon and the other 3 come on Friday night and stay till Saturday afternoon then the first 2 come back Saturday afternoon and stay till Sunday. WHEW Busy weekend. Ok, so we knew Kaitelynn was playing in the bathroom. I even said something to her dad. Not only did she spend more than 1/2 hr in there for a shower (she's 7) then she kept running back into the bathroom every 5 mins and staying in there for 20 mins or more. (yup playing) I go into the bathroom Sunday night and notice my shampoo is full to the top. WHAT? Yeah water was added. DAMNIT. I just can't have those kids here any more. Then I found out that every time they each got water they got a new glass so in the bedrooms they were sleeping in were plies of glasses. I had plastic throw away one but did they use those OH NO NO NO. They used my good glasses out of the cupboard!!!!! Rant over
In the mean time we are working on repairing this house (with what little money we can squeeze out of our SS checks each month) So that we can either sell it or get a reverse mortgage so we can buy a house in FL.
I need to be in FL. My health is demands it. I've now had a second Dr tell us this. AND THIS TIME Mr. Gab Heard it with his own ears that the Doctor told me that I need to be in a warmer state. So we are fixing all that our oldest son ruined. We still need to do Floors and the Bathroom. Unless we find enough money to also make the other changes I want but that's for another blog.
So ok I told my son they weren't coming back again.
Then 2 weeks go by and our daughter tells us her boys have Friday off from school. Grandpa said it has been so warm we should do a bon-fire before winter really sets in. SO we went and picked up her two boys on Thursday so they could spend Thursday night and do bon-fire with gpa. But of course youngest son gets pissed cause we used the excuse that his kids cant stay cause we are remodeling and don't have room for them to stay yet we have room for his sisters boys. (whom btw can care for themselves one is 15 the other is 10). Anyways so here we go Thursday we have 2 they go home on Friday afternoon and the other 3 come on Friday night and stay till Saturday afternoon then the first 2 come back Saturday afternoon and stay till Sunday. WHEW Busy weekend. Ok, so we knew Kaitelynn was playing in the bathroom. I even said something to her dad. Not only did she spend more than 1/2 hr in there for a shower (she's 7) then she kept running back into the bathroom every 5 mins and staying in there for 20 mins or more. (yup playing) I go into the bathroom Sunday night and notice my shampoo is full to the top. WHAT? Yeah water was added. DAMNIT. I just can't have those kids here any more. Then I found out that every time they each got water they got a new glass so in the bedrooms they were sleeping in were plies of glasses. I had plastic throw away one but did they use those OH NO NO NO. They used my good glasses out of the cupboard!!!!! Rant over
In the mean time we are working on repairing this house (with what little money we can squeeze out of our SS checks each month) So that we can either sell it or get a reverse mortgage so we can buy a house in FL.
I need to be in FL. My health is demands it. I've now had a second Dr tell us this. AND THIS TIME Mr. Gab Heard it with his own ears that the Doctor told me that I need to be in a warmer state. So we are fixing all that our oldest son ruined. We still need to do Floors and the Bathroom. Unless we find enough money to also make the other changes I want but that's for another blog.
Saturday, October 21, 2017
So not happy
I understand when people fight and they need to separate from each other, but when there are kids involved why are they pitting those kids against the other parent? One parent has the kids while the other parent only gets the kids ever other weekend and only for 24 hrs and with our supervision. It's like now we have no life. Plus they grill those kids and grill those kids till they have no idea how confused these kids are. And any little criticism you give those kids brings them to tears. One child is so out of control that no matter how many times you say settle down they are still bouncing off the walls. Almost like you gave them nothing but sugar to eat. Speaking of eating that's another thing that makes me mad if they don't like it and some times even if they do they take one or two bites then toss it in the garbage. What a waste of money.....MY MONEY. And we are living on a limited income now. And does their father do anything about it? Nope not one damn thing. And when the kids do misbehave instead of him doing anything about it he threaten them with grandpa will spank you. NO GRANDPA WILL NOT! We tell him to stop using us as a threat but he refuses. And he just cant do a thing for himself. We just can't move forwards with this crap going on. I have so many health issues going on and this stress just is NOT helping me.
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