cars winter and this and that

This is our grandson's car after his 2nd accident. The first accident he had, his tire blew while he was on the freeway and he spun out and hit two highway signs. He wasn't hurt shook but not hurt. This accident he missed the stop sign and hit a mini van with a family in. That's his car above after second accident. Same car that also hit the highway signs but he only had to replace the drivers side back door. Now it's totalled. Worse part is he says he must have blacked out or something because he woke up in the passenger seat not the driver's seat. So this week Grandpa and him have been looking for a new car. And we have been talking to him that he needs to really drive more slower and carefully cause next time he might not be so lucky. everyone in the mini van seems to be ok. although they did take the mom to hospital on a stretcher. But he said he traumatized those kids. I hope he has learn ed his lesson though and drives slower and much more carefully.
And now:
I had hope hubby and I would be living in Florida by now. I can't do winter with my health the way it is. But this house has 40+ years of stuff (junk) that we are going through. Some things I just refused to get rid of. so we pack it to move. Then we go though the box again and I toss it saying I really don't need this. Which is part true and mostly not. So I guess we are staying here again another winter I will be staying in side to prevent me taking a fall. Yeah I know you call fall in the house as well but I feel safer in the house than out.

AND:
we are finally empty Nester's. All our children all our grandchildren have moved out.
and as write that oldest grandson is now back. he had been sleeping at his mom's but she only has 3 bedrooms and one isn't suppose to be a bedroom. SO he has been sleeping on the couch . so when any one gets up and wants to watch t.v. they bother his sleep. And daughter is now engaged and he is living there as well and he is the first to come out and turn on the T.V. So he doesn't get much sleep and some times he works till 2 in the morning. So he asked if he could please come back till he had enough money saved to get his own apartment. SO we said yes of course after all we have 3 extra bed rooms now.
So as I wrap this up, we are still here in Minnesota. Oldest grandson (not the one who had accident) has moved back in and the grandson who did have accident has found a new car.  Lucky the cat is 10 years old and Fishstick the goldfish is also still with us after 9 years. They say they can live 9 years so each morning I wake up thinking this might be the day and each day that he is still with us I thank god he is still here.  I thank god we are all still here.